Here are five simple things to make your next party enjoyable holiday for everyone.

1) Leave Home Without It

Unless you visit like-minded people, but your average private law at home. Cover the tattoo, remove the nose ring, remove the tongue stud. Similarly, avoid editorials, sermons and lectures. Remember: it is a celebration of Christmas. Nobody should be offended.

2) make them special

Let others talk. Seduce (or at least concerned) with what they say. Ask questions to encourage more meaningful. Find something to appreciate. Leave your attention while listening. The note is a gift that lasts a lifetime.

3) Detach

Let others have theirs. Accept what people say, no matter how outrageous. Avoid correct, criticize, or complain. Ignore the bait that draws you into arguments. Do not take things personally. Suffice it to say, “Oh, that’s interesting” and move on.

4) Talk Friendly

Offer compliments. Think positive. Be merciful. Be mature. Find more diplomatic means to express your ideas. Avoid negative words, especially “no”, because the negative thoughts trigger a defensive reaction. Be a source of solutions, rather than complications.

5) Behave

Avoid tricky questions ( “What kind of idiot would do that?”). Avoid punitive stories containing insults hidden. Prevent people leaving in topics. Spending time with others who enjoy your ideas. I remember that there is always a good idea to start a fight.